那么简单的一个字， 都能让我的心跳加速，笑了起来~
就喜欢你靠近我， 对我 小小声的说话 =)
还 记得我读过一个这样的文章：
当两个人吵架时，往往都会很大声的回应对方。 为什么呢？ 那是因为两个人的心， 已经距离很远了。。。。
而刚热恋的情侣， 都会窃窃细语的与对方说话~ 那是因为， 那俩的心都很靠近，很亲密，很多时候，就算不说， 也会明白~
一时的unfounded randomness. 哈哈哈哈， 要一直保持这热恋的甜蜜哦! (哇牢好像有点太肉麻了！）
Thursday, March 20, 2014
悄悄话
‘喂~’
那么简单的一个字， 都能让我的心跳加速，笑了起来~
就喜欢你靠近我， 对我 小小声的说话 =)
还 记得我读过一个这样的文章：
当两个人吵架时，往往都会很大声的回应对方。 为什么呢？ 那是因为两个人的心， 已经距离很远了。。。。
而刚热恋的情侣， 都会窃窃细语的与对方说话~ 那是因为， 那俩的心都很靠近，很亲密，很多时候，就算不说， 也会明白~
一时的unfounded randomness. 哈哈哈哈， 要一直保持这热恋的甜蜜哦! (哇牢好像有点太肉麻了！）
We live with love. <3 br="">
那么简单的一个字， 都能让我的心跳加速，笑了起来~
就喜欢你靠近我， 对我 小小声的说话 =)
还 记得我读过一个这样的文章：
当两个人吵架时，往往都会很大声的回应对方。 为什么呢？ 那是因为两个人的心， 已经距离很远了。。。。
而刚热恋的情侣， 都会窃窃细语的与对方说话~ 那是因为， 那俩的心都很靠近，很亲密，很多时候，就算不说， 也会明白~
一时的unfounded randomness. 哈哈哈哈， 要一直保持这热恋的甜蜜哦! (哇牢好像有点太肉麻了！）
Monday, March 3, 2014
Uncertainties.
Dubious, uneasiness, anxious, ambivalence, you name it. These are all emotions that we will come across some days in our lives.
In fact, some of us are troubled by it, every single day, by every decisions to be made, big or small.
Nevertheless, it is our choice, our responsibility.
Choosing a school:
Am I stepping into the right school?
Getting into f4:
Science stream or art stream?
Finishing f5:
Public or private institution, or in some, to work?
Getting into an institution:
Which program guarantees my success?
Finishing basic tertiary education:
To further study or jump into work force?
And, the one to be discussed today:
Is she/he really the one for me?
This is, IMO,is a question that posed in front of everyone, before they decide to engage in a serious relationship. Why this sudden realization you might ask. Haha, it all stems out from the party last night, when everyone was excitedly drinking, gambling and stuff, a few of us decided to just sit in a corner and talked about random stuff about relationship, while, of course, not forgetting to gossip around lol.
Gathering around with friends activates my 8-gua gene all the time. lol
Aaaanyway, back to the topic. So this is the question.. Is he/she the one for me?
Most of the time, if not all, is when a guy likes a girl, and his 'good feelings' (I shall categorize a relationship into 3 levels, from good feeling --> like --> love) is well reciprocated by the girl as well. Both of them likes each other and felt good when being together, but somehow, the doubt arises.
Is this feeling true? Am I really loving him/her or is this just an expression of concern due to the lack of companion / social norm of being into a relationship / peer pressure?
How is his/her treatment to me different compared to other boy/girls?
Is it really possible to know how and where this relationship will be, if we do not give each other a chance to know each other more? The transition from 'feeling good' to 'like' requires a period of time where both of them know each others' longs and shorts, while from 'like' to 'love', in my opinion, requires maturation of the bonding that can be acquired only through hardships and resolved conflicts. Accepting him/her as who he/she is.
You know, there is a saying that goes, 'do not commit into a relationship if you are unsure of your feeling, it is not child's play you know!'
But, again, is it possible to be sure of your own feeling before committing into a relationship? This is not rhetoric, I do hope for some answers from the readers. haha.
But today, I'm truly lucky and blessed to have made the first move, well, after being brain-washed by her friends. hahahaha~
Even the scenario stated above occurred to me, uncertainties of my own feeling + afraid of being rejected halted me from doing the right thing - to pursue what I've been longing for. A companion.
That is why, I'm happy that I did something brave, courageous and dispelled my uncertainties 158 days back =)
The Sunshine that makes me smile all the time, you are, and always will be <3 br="">
In fact, some of us are troubled by it, every single day, by every decisions to be made, big or small.
Nevertheless, it is our choice, our responsibility.
Choosing a school:
Am I stepping into the right school?
Getting into f4:
Science stream or art stream?
Finishing f5:
Public or private institution, or in some, to work?
Getting into an institution:
Which program guarantees my success?
Finishing basic tertiary education:
To further study or jump into work force?
And, the one to be discussed today:
Is she/he really the one for me?
This is, IMO,is a question that posed in front of everyone, before they decide to engage in a serious relationship. Why this sudden realization you might ask. Haha, it all stems out from the party last night, when everyone was excitedly drinking, gambling and stuff, a few of us decided to just sit in a corner and talked about random stuff about relationship, while, of course, not forgetting to gossip around lol.
Gathering around with friends activates my 8-gua gene all the time. lol
Aaaanyway, back to the topic. So this is the question.. Is he/she the one for me?
Most of the time, if not all, is when a guy likes a girl, and his 'good feelings' (I shall categorize a relationship into 3 levels, from good feeling --> like --> love) is well reciprocated by the girl as well. Both of them likes each other and felt good when being together, but somehow, the doubt arises.
Is this feeling true? Am I really loving him/her or is this just an expression of concern due to the lack of companion / social norm of being into a relationship / peer pressure?
How is his/her treatment to me different compared to other boy/girls?
Is it really possible to know how and where this relationship will be, if we do not give each other a chance to know each other more? The transition from 'feeling good' to 'like' requires a period of time where both of them know each others' longs and shorts, while from 'like' to 'love', in my opinion, requires maturation of the bonding that can be acquired only through hardships and resolved conflicts. Accepting him/her as who he/she is.
You know, there is a saying that goes, 'do not commit into a relationship if you are unsure of your feeling, it is not child's play you know!'
But, again, is it possible to be sure of your own feeling before committing into a relationship? This is not rhetoric, I do hope for some answers from the readers. haha.
But today, I'm truly lucky and blessed to have made the first move, well, after being brain-washed by her friends. hahahaha~
Even the scenario stated above occurred to me, uncertainties of my own feeling + afraid of being rejected halted me from doing the right thing - to pursue what I've been longing for. A companion.
That is why, I'm happy that I did something brave, courageous and dispelled my uncertainties 158 days back =)
Saturday, February 8, 2014
Better late than never!
2nd Day~
I know it has been some time since the last post, that I promised to have it on sooner but oh well, the lazy gene in me prevailed ~.~
The first destination that we went for the 2nd day!
Lang Tengah! Its a great place for phototaking =D the breeze is just lovely! Plus, a symbolic place that we've been to Langkawi before. hahaha
Actually, anywhere with breeze is great, I just love the feeling of the air from the sea gushing against me =)
And next we continued on to the Taman Lagenda (literally translates to The Legendary Garden), which I don't see any point why we should go there at the first place..
Aside from this stretch of road lined by trees (most of em dead trees mind you!), the whole garden has nothing more to see.
Well at least this road serves as a good photoshooting spot as well~ (yi lu he ni zou xia qu =D)
In which we'd decided to give up on it because we have to wait for MORE THAN 2 HOURS just to have a ride on the cable car.
Plus, the skybridge is under maintenance so once we got up there, there will be nothing much for us to see anyway~ (Self consolation)
Since there's nothing much to see in the cable car place (I forgot the exact name actuallyyyyy) we went to the nearest tourist spot beside it~Telaga Tujuh waterfall!
The road up was kinda steep!
Ok, failed illusion lol but yeahh I hope I made my point hahaa
And the climb uphill was not rewarding, AT ALL! Why?
This is what we got! Walaoo ehh! They should rename the waterfall into waterTRICKLE ~.~
I don't know, was it afflicted with drought or something??
Random picture: Miss L, so cute, hahahahaha, macam some small kid thinking of getting down to water or not~
And next! (Yeah our agenda is kinda packed I guess. lol)
Initially we wanted to go to Pantai Pasir Hitam + Gunung Tengkorak. But a few locals said that there is nothing worth going over that 2 places, so, we directly went to Pantai Cenang, cuz its one of the most happening place in Langkawi! =D
Waiting for the sun to set (it was about 5+pm near 6 at that time) Look at the ray that reflected on the water, and some of the rays that is dissipating through the clouds. And a GREAT bonus point of being really really windy! Love it =D
I just love candid pictures =D
And this is one sad story. Once upon a time, starfish A was swimming (do they actually swim??! IDK lol) innocently along the beach, searching for his (or her, well IDK as well hahah) long lost son starfish B
Suddenly! A group of reckless young teens came along, picked him up, shoved him up to the beach, flip it over and stick starfish B on it!
Forced copulationnnnnnnnnn (forced rape of starfish muhaha) The end.
ok. something random that we did on the beach lol
Love this the most =D
It was all very fun, but the main objective for us to be there, to see the sun set, was disrupted by an untimely clump of clouds. But nevertheless it was fun going to the beach just to relax =D
Anddddd, finally! The 2nd day comes to an end, a few rounds of gossiping before falling to sleep (no alcohol YET, cuz the next day we have to go snorkeling early in the morning~)
Couple sweater between me and her, unplanned hahaha, and we even brought the same plastic, unplanned, woohoo~ lol ok nth much jz randomly saying kthxbai till the next post!!
I know it has been some time since the last post, that I promised to have it on sooner but oh well, the lazy gene in me prevailed ~.~
The first destination that we went for the 2nd day!
Actually, anywhere with breeze is great, I just love the feeling of the air from the sea gushing against me =)
And next we continued on to the Taman Lagenda (literally translates to The Legendary Garden), which I don't see any point why we should go there at the first place..
Aside from this stretch of road lined by trees (most of em dead trees mind you!), the whole garden has nothing more to see.
Well at least this road serves as a good photoshooting spot as well~ (yi lu he ni zou xia qu =D)
But, oh well, too bad I'm just too un-romantic to say out those words and to take some romantic, scenic picture.
"Wow, what a nice scenery over here!"
"Yeah, lets take some picture of us in half squat position with a constipated look on our faces!"
Well, that pretty up sums up the picture above. lol (Jump-shot fail)
Next stop, we went to the cable car area.
Plus, the skybridge is under maintenance so once we got up there, there will be nothing much for us to see anyway~ (Self consolation)
Since there's nothing much to see in the cable car place (I forgot the exact name actuallyyyyy) we went to the nearest tourist spot beside it~Telaga Tujuh waterfall!
The road up was kinda steep!
And the climb uphill was not rewarding, AT ALL! Why?
I don't know, was it afflicted with drought or something??
And next! (Yeah our agenda is kinda packed I guess. lol)
Initially we wanted to go to Pantai Pasir Hitam + Gunung Tengkorak. But a few locals said that there is nothing worth going over that 2 places, so, we directly went to Pantai Cenang, cuz its one of the most happening place in Langkawi! =D
Waiting for the sun to set (it was about 5+pm near 6 at that time) Look at the ray that reflected on the water, and some of the rays that is dissipating through the clouds. And a GREAT bonus point of being really really windy! Love it =D
Suddenly! A group of reckless young teens came along, picked him up, shoved him up to the beach, flip it over and stick starfish B on it!
Forced copulationnnnnnnnnn (forced rape of starfish muhaha) The end.
ok. something random that we did on the beach lol
It was all very fun, but the main objective for us to be there, to see the sun set, was disrupted by an untimely clump of clouds. But nevertheless it was fun going to the beach just to relax =D
Couple sweater between me and her, unplanned hahaha, and we even brought the same plastic, unplanned, woohoo~ lol ok nth much jz randomly saying kthxbai till the next post!!
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